Sex Terms Glossary

 Time for a text post! For a long time now I've thought about the need to explain some of the labels I use for various sex acts, since a lot of them use slang that might not be familiar to all visitors. Think of this as a companion to the Labels for Group Sex Scenes post from way back at the beginning. Some of these should be pretty obvious, but will be included out of completeness. Unless otherwise specified, all terms are gender-neutral. With linked examples!

69: mutual oral sex

airtight: aka triple penetration, all holes filled; a woman with penises/dildos in her mouth, vagina, and anus simultaneously

anal: any sexual activity (oral [rimming, rimjob], manual [fingering], with penis [buttfucking], or with sex toys including but not limited to dildos) involving the anus (backdoor)

anal virgin: first time penetrative anal sex

bi: scene where one participant has sexual contact (anything from kissing to penetrative sex) with both male and female participants

blowjob: aka sucking cock; oral sex performed on a male

bondage: physical restraint or infliction of pain for sexual pleasure (for purposes of my blog, I draw a distinction between bondage and spanking, even though the latter may include restraint and/or pleasure)

cherry popping: first time penetrative sex (variously defined)

double penetration: a woman with penises/dildos in her vagina and anus simultaneously

eating pussy: aka muffdiving; oral sex performed on a female

facial: ejaculating onto the face of one person or multiple persons; multiple facials on one person can be called 'bukkake'

fingering: manual stimulation of the vagina, labia, or anus

handjob: manual stimulation of the penis

hot dogging: non-penetrative sex involving rubbing a penis in the cleft of the buttocks

masturbation: self-pleasure, whether by hand, sex toy, or other device

paizuri: aka titfucking; non-penetrative sex involving rubbing a penis in the cleft of the breasts

pegging: anal sex performed on a male by a female through the use of a strap-on dildo

rimjob: see anal

sex: penetrative vaginal sex with either a penis or a strap-on dildo

spitroast: a person with penises/dildos in their mouth and vagina or anus simultaneously

strap-on: a dildo with a harness that allows women to penetrate men (see pegging) or other women

thigh job: aka intercrural sex; non-penetrative sex involving rubbing a penis between the partner's thighs

toy: aka sex toy; any item specifically designed for sexual pleasure, either by oneself or with a partner(s)

tribbing: non-penetrative sex involving two women rubbing their labia/clitorises together

virgin: a person who has not yet had sex (variously defined)